Karen's Korner: A Happy Birthday to My Daughter Who Is Far Away!

Sunday, June 23, 2013

A Happy Birthday to My Daughter Who Is Far Away!

Thirty-three years ago I was in the hospital preparing to welcome into the world a miracle....my daughter. When the doctor laid her in my arms and she wrapped her tiny hand around my pointer finger I knew that I was a goner. At that moment in time there was not another mother alive who was so captivated by something as beautiful as she was. She is still captivating me at age thirty three. Today I want to do a time line birthday post telling you about her. She is amazing, strong, faithful, loving, and every other good adjective I can think of. So...let me introduce you to my daughter (and for those of you out there with one....you may have many of the same feelings). Kat was a rocker....when she was little we would rock a lot. She would hold onto my shirt with her little fist and gaze up into my face. It does something to me even today to hold a baby and rock. She slept through the night from the time we got home from the hospital. The only time she didn't was when she was about six months old and had colic. I was a blessed woman.

She walked on her first birthday. She loved tea parties, dolls, and you could set her down in her playpen (known as pack and plays today) and she would entertain herself for hours.

When she was two she climbed up on the cabinet....stacked cookbooks and got an oatmeal cookie from the Toms Cookie jar, which was on top of the fridge. I found her....and was afraid she would fall if I spoke sharply....so I stood and watched her....when she was on the cabinet again and off the cookbooks I made my presence known. She was busted....turned to me and held out her cookie, said, "I got this for you mommy!" I took the cookie, thanked her, and ate it. Her little face was crushed. After I had gotten her down to the floor, moved the cookbooks so she would not do this again....and moved the cookie jar.....I gave her one as well. My friend Deborah has made all her cakes (Debo is Kat's second mom) and Kat always got to have the exact piece of cake she wanted much to Debo's horror. Kat would always want the very center piece out of the cake (Holly Hobby or Strawberry Shortcakes face). I have sung "Happy Birthday" to her every year on her birthday....either in person....or on the phone.

Her godparents, Chuck and Sue were a major part of her life and many a trip was spent with them in Knoxville.

Travel with Kat was always an adventure and we have covered nearly all fifty states together. She has seen the World's Largest Ball of Twine (from the movie Michael), the last existing sod house, where Dances With Wolves was filmed, Old Faithful, Green Gables, New York, Venice, and hundreds more places just like it. Her friends were going to the beach and Disney World....she was having a life history lesson...and yes...she has been to the beach...and to Disney World....but Oh The Other Places We Have Been.

Memorial Day weekend after she finished the eighth grade she was in a boat explosion and burned on 33% of her body with first, second, and third degree burns. It was a mother's worst nightmare. The doctors felt there would be skin grafts, surgery, and scars. My heart was heavy. I called on my best Prayer Warriors and the prayers began. It was a long, painful process for both of us and I don't know what I would have done without her best friend forever, Jill (Debo's daughter). My heart was ripped into each time we went for therapy. By the end of the summer....there was no grafting or surgery.....and there is one tiny little place left on her leg...that probably I am the only one who notices it. She was healed....we serve an awesome God. Kat and Brian both were in the BRHS Pride band and I rarely missed an event. I was one of the biggest Band Booster parents there has ever been. I loved sitting near the band and rocking to their rhythms.

Her senior year she was one of the two drum majors. Empty nesting nearly killed me but after having lived on my own for a few months when she returned home with chicken pox I could not wait for her to go back to college. I have prayed for her all of her life. I taught her in Mission Friends, youth....I have always been active in her spiritual upbringing. When she met her now husband, Brian.....she was in the 9th grade and Brian was a junior. I knew from the day I met Brian when he was in the 9th grade that he was as special as she was. I prayed then that Kat would find and marry someone just like Brian....little did I know. They are two peas in a pod. Together they have a wonderful relationship with God and each other.

Kat believes that the only place a necklace is good to wear is on your head as a crown. She even convinced friends Beth and Mary Rachel that this was true.

Kat became an Early Childhood Special Ed teacher and has her EdS in Special Ed. She is an amazing teacher and I am so very proud of her. Several years ago she found a new passion. Orphans in Moldova through Stella's Voice....and that is why she is far away today. She has been in Moldova since June 3rd. Brian was there with her until the 10th. She will be home on Thursday.

She does amazing things in Moldova and shares her hugs and big heart with the orphans there. She is truly called. Kat and Brian are now preparing to be missionaries full-time. I would be lying to you if I told you that I won't miss them, but I am proud....so very proud. When God called....she listened. She is amazing....and so today I want her to know Frank and I both love her to pieces, wish her a Happy Birthday(and I will sing to her if I can get the time change down....via Skype), and I hope her day is AWESOME....just like she is. Am I a proud momma or what?